Yes, I can help you with this. First of all, you need to admit you are kind of a fucktard. At the very least, you’re a tool, but I think you have achieved fucktard status. Once you accept that, we can move on to step two.
Step two is going to be stopping being a fucktard. (That’s why step one is important.) Everything is wrong with what you wrote to me. Quite nearly everything.
Here’s the most important change you need to make: submissive girls (girls in general, but let’s focus on submissive girls since that’s the topic you brought up) are not needy. You are forbidden from saying that ever again—in fact, we should all just banish the word “needy” from our vocabularies when discussing girls. When you lead a girl to discover her submissive side, the experience is transforming, but it can also be shattering. You are responsible for that which you have tamed; she naturally will need love, caring, and emotional support. If you do not have time for that, then you do not have time for any of this.
Once again, I think we find another question that is not a BDSM problem and has nothing to do with BDSM. Your problems seem to be a bit more…. fundamental. This ask suggests that you are turd of a human being. (You might think I am being harsh, but I think I am being fair, based on what you presented in this ask.) Please fix that before you fuck up another submissive girl. You need to be a human before you can be a Dom.